Despite heightened awareness, the rates of mental health complications, suicides, and overdoses are soaring... Why? Mental health care remains reactive. In physical health, we track ranges in everything from bodyweight to blood pressure to act early. So, why not do the same for mental health?
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While in Mexico, I shared that I’d sent my pal in this space, @kevinhinesstory some pics, after he asked if I was in NY to meet up. Unsolicited, he took those pics & made a post on LinkedIn that was so nice, about the advocacy work I’m doing in other countries. He didn’t need to do that. He’s got his own big platform. He did it bc he gets the big pic - that no one person saves the world…we have to be a team.
Listen, everyone who shares openly about their experience wants to help as many as they can. They want to go “wide”…so that a brand & core msg they are building can make more impact. Some do it bc it brings money. Some do it bc they are mission driven & have been in so much pain, they want to help. I like those who lead w the latter.
The five gentlemen I shared in these slides - they have varying degrees as far as sizes of platforms - but they have something in common: they all care, have a big heart, don’t want to see others suffer like they did, & are genuine.
Especially w men, which is why I started this type of post (will do other posts on other groups), it’s rare to find ones who are truly vulnerable. You’ll find “influencers” willing to share stories, but often it’s to build their platform, and not as the primary driver - to help others w radical openness.
These five people here - I follow all of them & root them on. I told Kevin on his post, it’s like having an Avengers groups from Marvel, & everyone is going out on the road, doing their thing, & trying to help the world…individually but ALSO as a team.
Check out each of these accounts: @theofleury14 @justinbrien19 @theryanphillipsofficial @boydmelson - from sexual abuse to abuse in locker rooms, from loss of loved ones to caring for sick family members…it’s an incredible group of guys - an Avengers group that fills my cup when I check in, read their posts, & see the work they are doing.
And no, it’s not a “top 5” list. It’s just 5 I’m starting w & will share more in future posts.
Who are accounts that are similar that you follow? Please share 🙏⬇️.
#MentalHealthMatters #MentalHealthAdvocacy #mentalHealthawareness #mensmentalhealth #mentalhealthcommunity #SameHere🤙 #5in5 #BeHereTomorrow
Complex problem - one that hasn’t been solved by one-sided posts/rants from politicians or influencers in decades.
If you’re as tired as I am/we are, of seeing these tragedies continue to happen, maybe it’s time we held leaders accountable for common sense compromise. Hope these stats help paint a broader picture. Happy to provide sources to those who ask via DM (Too long to write out all of them here.)
If you have other ideas - other than a one sided approach, or you agree we need compromise to make change happen, please share⬇️.
#MentalHealthMatters #MassShootingPrevention #commonsensegunlaws #mentalhealthreform #gunsafety #SameHere🤙 #5in5
Those who’ve been following along know that our SameHere Global team is out in Mexico City - meeting w govt leaders on the local, state, & federal levels, as well as large Mexican tech businesses - to help share our proactive mental health solutions more widely arnd the globe/outside the US.
As it relates to this story, our top piece of our technology, our app: SameHere Scale, as well as those techs we’re partnering with, all use AI in some form. This post is NOT meant to knock AI, generally. Let me give an example:
While we have STARR (stress & trauma active release & rewiring) exercises or a “gym for the brain” w MH exercise options already in the app, AI that we’re incorporating w tech partners will enable us to show users their trends, & make recommendations as to the best exercises that work for them. AI bots can be like personal trainers taking users thru the “brain gym.”
That’s harnessing the power of AI to HELP people.
Bc of the travel, I wasn’t going to post this wk, but this story had me boiling. AI tools like ChatGPT, Gemini, Grok, & others need to have safeguards related to mental health & suicld@lity put into place - NOW.
These AI tools aggregate posts & data from all over the web. Think of the web as a library of books you can take out. AI is a way to get a summary of what’s in all the books, collectively, in the click of a button. Bold font for this: THERE IS NO REASON THAT SUPPORT OF SUIClD€ NOR MEANS TOWARDS SUIClD€, AGGREGATED, SHOULD EVER BE SHARED BY ANY OF THESE AI TOOLS. EVER.
There is no legit reason that can be given for why this info shouldn’t be deleted from any data that can be pulled up by these tools when users search.
When someone’s having ideations - they need HOPE, not a push to follow an impulsive error msg they’re having. We have to hold these companies to higher standards.
Also, terrible headline by the NY Post here - to put the “means” discussed in it is awful. Media companies need to be held accountable too.
#safeai #aiaccountability #airesponsibility #aiandmentalhealth #preventsuicide #SameHere🤙 #5in5
Trauma IS: what happens inside our body (physiological changes) when we live thru & perseverate over challenging life events that overwhelm our ability to cope in the moment.
Trauma can be FROM: SO many events/thoughts - that so often we invalidate ppl’s experience bc they don’t seem “that bad” to have caused a big “issue.”
@slivingstn shared a post w me that went pretty viral, that invalidated ppl’s individual paths & experiences. It: incorrectly referred to trauma as the EVENTS themselves. In doing so, it then: made a broad brush statement that society is using the term trauma for too many “events” & now, the term’s been watered down, bc every minor inconvenience is being referred to as trauma.
I think a post like that misses the mark in so many ways, & invalidates the unique human experiences we each have.
- For one child, for example - something that would appear to be awful - the sudden loss of a grandparent - leads to trauma in the body. Why? Maybe their parents deal w loss in a way where they mourn & emote very heavily.
Whereas in another fam, they cope differently - having a large celebration of life & appreciating all that this grandparent contributed to the world. The result? This child may not develop trauma from that loss whereas the first one did.
And NEITHER fam is “right” for how they handled the situation. We each learn to cope w diff tools.
Go past events, & go to thoughts. One person loses their job in their 40s & goes rt back on the hunt & finds an even better gig. Another goes thru the same thing, & gets lost in a very active brain w “what ifs” - abt losing out to a younger candidates, not having enough skills, afraid their name’s tarnished in the industry, not being able to make rent.
Obv you’d like to have skills to cope like the first example - but everyone’s wired differently, & so a job loss for person 2 may lead to trauma, where it doesn’t for person 1.
Why can’t we have this nuanced discussion & understanding? Why must we invalidate ppl’s experiences? It’s so judgmental. Trauma happens inside 5 out 5 of us. And we don’t get to choose how we’re each impacted.
#SameHere🤙 #5in5 #trauma #ACEs
Analogies always help me better understand why I go back into old patterns…hope this help0: you.
#SameHere🤙 #5in5 #analogies #mentalhealthhelp #helpeachother #youcandoit
I was getting ready for a presentation & started to look up these stats & they both shocked me/at the same time, confirmed what I’ve been thinking abt this space for some time.
First off, let’s start w the macro: only 23% of ppl in the US get mental health treatment. Awfully interesting given how the media & large orgs in this space perpetuate the “1 in 5” w mental illness stat, exhaustively. Aligns almost exactly: here’s the percent of ppl who are sick, & therefore those are “the ones” who need treatment.
This stat creates a reactive model where nearly 80% of our population does NOTHING to treat mental health proactively - no therapy…let alone effective therapy.
But dive deeper into what’s on this slide. Even of those who go to treatment - almost 3x do meds alone vs do therapy alone. In a country where the Ph@rma industry is promoting direct to consumer (1 of only 2 countries in the world), we’re seeing how their “quick fix” model is appealing to MOST of the ppl who do something to seek out treatment. And…the fact that MOST think that meds - alone, is their answer, is not surprising, given the promos out there.
This post will get crushed. Bc it’s not like our Lewis Capaldi post which talked abt therapy, “generally.” When you talk in platitudes abt help, generally, posts can soar. In this case, that post has been seen by ~325k, already.
When you get into specifics about meds vs therapy, abt types of therapy, abt modalities that help you get to the sources & actually go on healing journeys, these social companies CRUSH the reach, bc the very system these slides show - is exactly what the powers that be/their advertisers want: a reactive model, that makes ppl wait till they feel sick, to then run to the “fix” or to types of general therapies that keep us coming back as customers & never get to the source.
Please share. Doesn’t have to be here - don’t want you to think it’s abt our numbers. Screen shot it & share w your friends/fam via text if you want. But please help more folks understand this reality. It needs to get out there!
#therapy #talktherapy #somatictherapy #mentalhealthtreatment #mentalhealthawareness #SameHere🤙 #5in5
This is not an “us vs them” topic - pointing fingers at the “unhealed.” Many of us didn’t know what healing journeys even meant, when it came to our emotional & mental health, until we we through a crash or an awful period - where going on a journey was necessary for our survival.
Now, for those of us who find ourselves on those paths, it’s important we understand that when it comes to those in our lives who haven’t been thru the same…either haven’t crashed themselves, or have & are just choosing not to do the work, we can’t & won’t be able to control how they hear our words.
It’s most likely our relationships with them WILL be strained, bc we are essentially speaking different languages.
Your words are coming from a place of experience & having learned…but their hearing of your words comes from wounds & walls they’ve held on to, that their system believes have kept them safe.
So, even if you have the most logical and pragmatic approaches to your conversations…& bring up practical ways to move forward with your relationship - friend, family, lover, colleague, etc., what they hear is likely different than how you intend those approaches.
Understanding that for your peace of mind is so important. And that doesn’t mean you point fingers. It means if they haven’t done the work, you hope they will one day - so that you can be in a healthy relationship with them.
And if they haven’t done that work, you have to accept that this is all they can give right now, and your communication likely will be strained if you keep trying to bring those pragmatic approaches to the table.
For now, it’s an acceptance so that you don’t fall apart trying to convince them of something they aren’t ready to hear.
#HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #SelfGrowth #InnerPeace #SelfAwareness #SameHere🤙 #5in5
Archie Wilson is an 18-year-old Aussie punter who left his family 8,000 miles away to chase his dream with the Nebraska Cornhuskers in college football.
His tears at a press conference yesterday when asked about his family back home showed heart—yet some mock what makes him human - maybe even a heightened state of passion that gives him an edge competitively on the field. We come to sports for raw emotion…and yet when we get in through vulnerability, it’s made fun of.
Let’s cheer his courage
& work to change these false perceptions. 🏈💔
#ArchieWilson #VulnerabilityIsStrength #Huskers #cornhuskerstate #RawandReal #collegefootball #SameHere🤙 #5in5
These past few days I met w 2 football programs in IL to discuss leadership, sacrifice, mental toughness, & mental health. I use those exact terms bc - they’re what the coaches asked me to touch on, specifically.
One was a HS team w a brand new 30yr old head coach: St Laurence HS
One was a college team w a coach who’s been there since the 90s: St Xavier U
Diff experiences, but aligned in values & both contacts of my friends & partners: #TeamMorgan.
Kelly & Nick Urso reached out in 2020 after their daughter, @morgan.urso had been discriminated against bc of suicidal ideations she was facing while playing competitive youth ice hockey. She was open abt her struggles, yet the league/coach asked her not to return until she was “fully healthy.” We don’t make athletes w physical injuries leave teams (they rehab on premise)…& now bc of the Ursos & their successful case in the Supreme Court, no youth athlete will ever be asked to leave a team for MH injury.
The Ursos found us because NHL goalie, Robin Lehner, wore the #SameHere🤙 on his helmet while w the Blackhawks. They’ve been like my 2nd fam ever since.
For these 2 formal talks, to start their seasons, there were no projectors to put slides on - so they turned out anything but formal. For the HS program we did it in a shed - 70 kids, freshmen - seniors packed together to avoid the rain storm. But look at their attention & focus➡️. For the college program - 50+ kids,l.
So, w/o slides, you speak from the heart. From experience. And bc of Morgan’s experience, you can thread together what true sacrifice & toughness & leadership looks like.
I miss playing oranized sports on a school level. I’m sure many of you do too. Those were special times w incredible memories. I got to reminisce & talk abt what I learned & still carry w me from those yrs.
And I’m so appreciative, now, that I get to combine a passion for helping others, w the ability to go back & address groups like this.
These kids need us now more than ever. In a world buried in “phones & follows,” in-person connection is paramount.
#connection #leadership #sacrifice #commitment #hsfootball #collegefootball #5in5
The world needs more sharers who are willing to put their mental health journeys - in a vulnerable - out there for the benefit of others.
We need this like never before…not just bc it’s how we best connect. But we need it bc they are SO many large accounts on social that preach that they have “the answer” and “the fix” and if you just follow their plan, you’ll be great - like them.
Not only is this not reality, it stops SO many well-intentioned folks from putting your/their own stories out there in a genuine/raw/real & vulnerable way. Why?
Bc when you put your stuff out there you deal with those in your life, & through the screen who DONT cheer you on. Who look at your posts and don’t comment or don’t hit like. Those who are silent & just watch.
But here’s the thing: those metrics & numbers & even their reactions (or lack of), do not matter.
Those of you willing to put it out there bc you want to help others, you’re a trigger to some of the folks (even in your own life), who haven’t worked on themselves yet. You can wish them well in your thoughts, & your gratitude - but the work they haven’t done is not your responsibility, nor is it something that should take you down.
Don’t fixate on them. There are so many others out there, even people you’ve never met, who do and will benefit from your openness. Pour your energy into those folks. The others - that’s on them to work on themselves.
We need more of you out here sharing vulnerably. Let’s do it💪!
#BeYourself #Authenticity #TrueSelf #embraceyou #fearless #SameHere🤙
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